My friend’s mother had a massive coronary this morning and passed away. She was 49. Forty-nine. My friend was in class teaching, the secretary came to get her, and she was told that her mother was “sick” and that she needed to go to the hospital. She got there, they took her to her mother’s room, and she (and her father) held her mother’s hand, and her mother died.
I am horrified. Horrified. My friend is relatively young (only 27) and very very close with her parents. This is going to wreck her, for so long.
I don’t know what to do, either… she was supposed to be coming on this trip with us tomorrow. The trip can’t be cancelled or annulled. Which means that I have to go on the trip, and I can’t be there for my friend. I called and left a message on her machine, texted her with an offer of any help whatsoever but what can you do?
So sad. So sad.

